Psychologist John Cottone delves into the differences in socialization between men and women in his latest article series. Drawing from personal experiences in both male-dominated and female-dominated environments, Cottone explores the implicit rules, expectations, and norms (RENs) that shape boys and girls into men and women.
In traditionally masculine environments, physicality and toughness are valued, while emotional sensitivity and communication skills are emphasized in predominantly feminine environments. The clash of RENs becomes evident in mixed social groups, schools, and workplaces, leading to conflict and resentment.
The Technological Revolution shifted the dynamic of the workforce, allowing women to enter and excel in previously male-dominated industries. With women now representing nearly half of the workforce in many careers, a tug of war ensues over which RENs should govern these environments.
This battle of the sexes has spilled over into various aspects of culture and politics, culminating in contentious debates such as the 2016 presidential election. The ongoing gender tug of wars highlight the need for a new set of RENs that blend the best of traditional masculinity and femininity.
Cottone invites readers to join the conversation and shape the future by sharing their perspectives on how to bridge the gap between traditionally masculine and feminine norms.
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