In a poignant tribute to her late son, John Umberger, who was murdered shortly after moving to New York City for his job at a nonprofit, his mother, Clary, marked the sentencing of his killers at La Goulue, one of his favorite restaurants. This gathering, attended by a supportive community of friends and family, served as a somber reflection on John’s vibrant spirit and tragic death. Clary reminisced about how her son, despite being new to New York, quickly developed a love for its culinary scene and was enthusiastic about embracing city life.
She described the heart-wrenching experience of watching surveillance footage during the trial, which showed John leaving a Hell’s Kitchen gay bar alone before returning moments later and then departing with the men later convicted of his murder. This painful moment underscored John’s vulnerability and the tragic choices he made that night. Friends described John as a “connector,” a charismatic individual who could instantly befriend anyone, highlighting his innate kindness and sociable nature.
In reflecting on the senseless violence, friend Neil Chatterjee expressed their sorrow, emphasizing that Umberger would have willingly helped anyone in need. Clary, who has fought for justice and raised awareness around her son’s death over the past three years, plans to return home to North Carolina. There, she intends to spend time with her family and volunteer for the LGBTQ community in John’s memory. Even as she processes her grief, Clary remains hopeful, believing that good can emerge from the tragedy. She affirmed the unwavering bond she feels with her son, confident they will be reunited one day.
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